time to rend

There is an appointed time for everything, and a time for every affair under the heavens.
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to uproot the plant.
A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to tear down, and a time to build.
A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance.
A time to scatter stones, and a time to gather them; a time to embrace, and a time to be far from embraces.
A time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away.
A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to be silent, and a time to speak.
A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.

ecclesiastes3:1-8

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we just had our 'time to rend'. always full of regrets afterwards. but who can avoid having those times?

if there is no 'time to rend', there will be no sweet 'time to sew'.

and nobody will value peace so much if there is no war.

c'est la vie.